Do You Hide Your Light to Avoid the Dark?

Posted by Kate on Jun 8, 2013 in General | 1 comment

Kindness I used to be kind to everyone. It’s in my nature to be kind, I’ve also been massively co-dependent. It was easier to be kind than say no, I got to avoid a confrontation. After years of being in relationships where my kindness was mistaken for weakness, and I let it, I went through quite a shocking heartache, and so it was easier to numb out and not feel my heart than deal with the pain. I was never ever going to open myself to bad treatment again, I did not want anymore narcissists in my life, or people who took advantage of my...

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Is Attack the Best Form of Defence?

Posted by Kate on Jun 7, 2013 in Healing | 0 comments

I am getting down to healing some core issues, and one of the issues that I’ve had running in a huge way in my life is that simmering below the surface is always a feeling of having to be at the ready in case I’m attacked. Psychic As a psychic I get attacked for what I do periodically. Some of those attacks are vicious. When I first started doing psychic readings I was attacked so bad that I stopped doing readings for 2 years. I thought I was incompetent and useless, because that person must have been right in what she said. I try to be...

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Are You Deeply In Love With Someone Who Doesn’t Love You Back?

Posted by Kate on May 26, 2013 in Relationships | 0 comments

One of the top questions I get asked as an Intuitive is from women in relationships with men who don’t love them back, or don’t treat them well. I get this question from men too. Deep down they know they deserve better treatment, or a reciprocal level of interest, but the Soul destroying part for them is they can’t understand why they can feel soooooo in love and he doesn’t feel the same way back. The love you feel is heavenly and surely this man must be your Soulmate, all your ducks are lined up and your heart says, he’s the...

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Healing Trauma – Are You Frozen In Time?

Posted by Kate on May 6, 2013 in Healing | 1 comment

One of the best audio cd’s I’ve heard on trauma and how it’s stored in the body is by Peter Levine. Hes a leading expert in understanding and treating trauma. It can be found at these sites – Book Depository- Healing Trauma and at Amazon- Healing Trauma: A Pioneering Program for Restoring the Wisdom of Your Body Mammals As mammals our natural response to anything traumatic is fight, flight or freeze. As humans we judge ourselves for freezing, but in nature it’s actually a survival mechanism, as it means the predator may think an...

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Are You Listening To Your Inner Authority?

Posted by Kate on May 5, 2013 in General | 0 comments

5 Elements I am doing a training this year about 5 Elements and Meta-Health. I have learned so much on the first call with Susanne Billander and Dr. Kwesi Anan Odum which looks at the 5 elements in Chinese Philosophy coupled with Meta Health. Water The first training we learned about the element of Water. This is related to the Kidneys, Bladder and Adrenals, the emotion of fear, the season is winter, and the sense is hearing. The kidneys store the memories of our ancestors. How we react to a situation in our life is hugely influenced by how...

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Is Your Inner Pusher Running Your Ragged?

Posted by Kate on Apr 28, 2013 in General | 4 comments

Two days ago I spent the whole day racing around cleaning my house, the more I cleaned, the more I saw to clean. I was grumpy as I was cleaning, thinking that everyone else in my house was lazy, and how dare they enjoy themselves all day when I was cleaning after them. Checklists I messaged them checklists of the jobs each one of them could do to contribute. They each agreed that they would do them, but I knew from past experience when I’m in this mode that they probably wouldn’t even go near that list. So I seethed some more. I cleaned my...

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Are You Trapped In Time In A Past Life?

Posted by Kate on Apr 26, 2013 in Healing | 0 comments

Dreams This year I have been having stronger and more vivid dreams. The energy in them has certainly intensified and I have been working with them doing healing. It’s sort of that thing where the energy of your dream lingers into your waking hours. Over the last few days I have been waking in the night in the grip of different energy that seemed to want me to sort it, so last night I was hoping for a good and deep nights sleep. I am letting go and trusting this process. Star Of David I woke in the night dreaming of the Star of David, it was...

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Do Healers Really Heal?

Posted by Kate on Apr 21, 2013 in Healing | 9 comments

I’m learning a new healing technique at the moment and it’s bringing up a lot of questions for me about how I work doing healing sessions. The Source I realise that I am not actually doing the healing, that Spirit/God/Universe/Goddess/The Source is the healing energy and I am the facilitator of the session, be it proxy work doing the Emotion Code, or other sessions that I offer like Cord Cutting or Soul Healings. I ask Spirit for the healing, Ask And You Shall Receive, but I see this healing energy works directly with the client, and not...

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One Technique That Helps With Insomnia

Posted by Kate on Apr 12, 2013 in General | 14 comments

I don’t usually have problems getting to sleep, but I can often wake up in the night, and the quiet means my mind has free reign to think about all the things I didn’t think about in the day, because I was busy. One technique that helps me get back to sleep and stops my mind chattering is taken from Internal Family Systems therapy. It’s based on the premise that we have parts inside us. Often these parts have been formed in childhood, to adapt to various situations, or taken from our culture and how we are forced to socialise. Some of...

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Are You Looking For Power Outside Of Yourself?

Posted by Kate on Mar 29, 2013 in General | 4 comments

It’s Easter. And I woke up Easter Friday and was angry as hell. Opening Hours It’s nice that it’s quiet and there’s an extended long weekend, but NZ closes the shops except for essential services. Not that I need to go shopping, but I wondered why the State felt it still needed to enforce closures for a religious reason, when we are a multi cultural society now, and we certainly don’t close the shops to honour other cultural beliefs. Judgement I thought about how a lot of the biggest anguishes in my life have been around Christian...

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