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How do you forgive?
I mean sure, we know that forgiveness is for us, and not the other person, it frees us, but HOW do you actually do it? It’s not a case of saying, -I forgive you – just giving it lip service. Empty words. How do you honestly mean it? How do you forgive yourself? I think forgiveness is the key to moving forward from the past to the future. It just stops things eating you up. One of the fastest techniques I think, to get me there and create the shift to be able to forgive, to bring the focus back to me and not on what the other...
read moreEarthbound Spirits and Ghosts
An earthbound spirit is pretty easy to define. A ghost not as clear cut. An earthbound spirit is here for a number of reasons. They are either trapped here on this plane, not able to cross over because they lack the energy to do so, or they stay here through fear of some kind of punishment if they do cross over, if they were traumatised in anyway like a violent death or if theyve just lost their way and dont know how to cross over. There is a difference between a spirit that has crossed over and comes and visits us, and an earthbound spirit....
read moreWhat are the Akashic Records?
Akasha is sanskrit for space or ether. Its a compendium of knowledge in a non physical plane of existance. It’s like a Universal Library, an energetic database. The Akashic Records holds all happenings for eternity, through time and space. Mind boggling isn’t it? These records are closely guarded, not everyone can enter these records, your intention has to be honouable and there are Akashic Records Guides who help protect them. Sounds all a bit woo-woo but of course not everyone wants to enter them. For more of my adult new age...
read moreKarma
I’m going to start a series on explaining what all the blocks and restrictions that come up in a Soul Realignment Reading. Here I want to talk about karma. There are two types of karma. Justified and Unjustified. Justified karma is karma that is being worked through for the benefit of the soul’s highest path and purpose. We don’t clear justified karma. We can find out more about where this karma originated though, if its from this lifetime or a past life and what the particular life lesson is that goes with this...
read moreWhen will I meet my soulmate?
This question has got to be right up there in popularity that I’m asked daily as a psychic. I loved that word – soulmate – I used to edit romance novels,it’s that huge hook into the fairytales we were read as children. We will be cocooned in in a nest of love, rescued from all the bad stuff, and everything will be ok from there on in, once he’s by my side, sweeping the path before my every step. I can’t live until he’s here and I can’t live without him. My life has no meaning without him. Oh I...
read moreWhy do men withdraw?
Has this happened to you? You meet a man, you have so much in common, you finish each other’s sentences, you have a love like no other. You KNOW he feels the same way. You can’t be away from each other. He tells you how he feels, and wants to know how you feel. This is it!! He’s the one. The one you’ve been waiting for. At last you’ve finally found him. And then…… He wants to spend a night with his mates. He gets overtime at work and asks to do double shifts. There’s a really great football game...
read moreThe Gift of Completion
In the early hours one morning I woke bolt awake and seemed to channel this healing method. It was like I was being talked through my own issues. When I wasn’t sure what was happening it was like a voice was guiding me telling me what to do next. There’s no one way to describe this method and the energy it shifts and the issues it puts to rest. I’m sure as I explore it more, other areas will come to light that it heals. Alot of times we stay stuck in a pattern of wanting, needing, obsessing about what we haven’t got. I know I...
read moreLoren Teague
I’m deeply saddened by the shocking news today that an old friend, Loren Teague, passed away early December 2009 from breast cancer that had metastised. I met Loren online in the 90s when we were two budding writers. We formed Pen and Ink Services and worked on editing manuscripts together. We met only once but that didn’t seem to be an issue because it was like we were next door neighbours, running an internet business in the early days of the internet. Loren realised her dream of being a published novelist. Her books are on...
read moreWhy we find it hard to let go!
I’m part way through reading Caroline Myss’s book, Defying Gravity. There’s a section in her book which has a profound effect on me, the capitals explain it all. Really captures why we find it hard to let go,let god. If we let any hurt, betrayal, injustice go, if we hand it over, decide to forgive, then our anger and pain isn’t there to shield us. But it’s a paradox of course. ~~~~~~ “Giving up the need to know why something has happened to you will definitely count among the most rigorous personal challenges of...
read moreIf my ex isn’t coming back to me, then who’s up next?
And how quickly can he be here. This is the second most common question I get asked after “What’s he feeling and thinking?”. As if being on your own is the most gawd awful situation to find yourself in. I mean, if you can’t stand being with yourself for one minute, who else is going to be able to. This also sets up rebound relationships which are way more intense than a normal relationship. Often they are relationships that we run to, to escape the last one, and we drag all those unreolved issues with us, just...
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