I’m glad you commented on this type of occurence, and more specifically the situation with the particular person you mentioned.

I wanted to say that you are not the only one who had those experiences. I used to send many clients her way until I received many complaints about her manner in sessions (controlling, impatient, egotistical, etc.) I think your intuition is serving you well about the dynamics at play here. Some people got a few sessions before they realised something was way off with the way they were treated.

I was not going to comment on this because I was taught as a child that if you’ve got nothing good to say, keep quiet, because it can come off as nasty or jealous. But I’m tired of hearing about this experience from my clients, and regretful that I sent any clients in the first place, so I thought I would finally comment.

There are many good healers and psychics out there. AJ mentioned a few of them. Kate is one of them. I also love Slade Roberson’s work. He’s a psychic.

Thanks so much for writing this insightful and helpful article. I quite often wonder why healers hurt as much as they help and if I was the only one having this experience.

Is it because a lot of healers have a lot of their own issues that they’ve yet to fully address and heal themselves? It becomes a really mixed bag, for sure.

I’ve been hurt, helped, and traumatized by quite a few healers (including coaches and psychics, etc).

For instance, I had an uncomfortable and unpleasant one on one session with Rose Rosetree, the cord cutting author. Although she seemed pleasant and friendly and laughed a lot, I found her to be impatient, patronizing, on the strange side, power-tripping, controlling, and with quite a big ego to boot.

I had the hardest time following her and understanding what she was saying and she became rude and impatient and unprofessional, in my opinion.

Nothing is worse than not feeling good and seeking out a healer to assist in the healing, only to come out feeling worse than one started. )-:

I wanted to get a cord cutting session with Rose, which is why I contacted her in the first place, and it didn’t happen during that session, and so I was torn about whether or not to have a follow-up session with her, even though I felt awful during and afterwards.

I was enticed by Rose’s knowledge, being that she is the author of the definitive cord cutting book, and I thought maybe I am exaggerating on what I’m feeling. But after reading your article, I realize that my red flag radars are going off and I should listen to it and not second guess myself, even if this is with a relatively well-known spiritual healer and author.

There are a lot of these healers who seem to be great in a large audience type of situation and/or when doing interviews, but then one on one it’s a totally different ball game and they aren’t as pleasant, kind, patient, or whatever they seem to be.

I’ve noticed, too, that quite often these healers will talk about avoiding the very things that they are doing. It makes you feel you can trust them when they seem so ethical and caring and loving, and yet one on one they can be so arrogant and egotistical and pompous and rude. And yet they talk about how one should not practice healing in that way in their books and interviews and classes. (Scratching my head).

It’s do as I say and not as I do?

How do these healers have such a large following when their egos aren’t in check?

Anyone else feel the same way as I do or have experienced similarly?

I am curious if AJ is referring to Rose in his post as the teacher who taught him cord cutting, but was a little crazy with the one on one session? If you’re reading this post, please let me know. If yes, it makes me feel like I’m not the only one feeling this way after the private session with her and my intuition is actually accurately guiding me.

Your services sound great, Kate. May I ask you who taught you the cord cutting technique you provide?

Thanks again for the great post!