When Will I Meet My Soulmate?

This question has got to be right up there in popularity that I’m asked daily as a psychic.

I loved that word – soulmate – I used to edit romance novels, it’s that huge hook into the fairytales we were read as children. We will be cocooned in in a nest of love, rescued from all the bad stuff, and everything will be ok from there on in, once he’s by my side, sweeping the path before my every step. I can’t live until he’s here and I can’t live without him. My life has no meaning without him.

Oh I love it!!!

I want that too.

And he cooks and cleans and I don’t have to work and he knows my every thought and cares about how I feel every second of the day. If he’s away from me then he can’t wait to get back to me.

And he’d gladly give up the remote for me.

Reality check!!!!

Waaaaaaaa!!!!!!

I do believe we have a soulmate. In fact I believe we have a few more than one soulmate. I believe we have 7 billion soulmates. And then some.

Everyone on this planet is our potential soulmate.

But that’s not really what my clients are asking, they don’t want a relationship that they have to work at, a relationship that has ups and downs and hardships.

They want to be rescued from what’s going on in their lives right now. They want that romantic love, the euphoria where everything is a chemically induced high of connection, safety and engulfment.

But, chances are our soulmate is going to push our buttons big time, they may even be someone we can’t live with because all our issues are up in our face when we are around them. There is the chance though that if we do the work and grow within the relationship it can be a place of connection and love.

At a soul level we are attracted to people who further our soul growth. From a personality level it might seem too hard going but we’re talking about the evolution of our soul and learning our soul lessons.

You want to do the work, right?