How to Cut the Cords of Attachment in Your Relationships for a Happier Life

Deeper Meaning of Cords of Attachment in Relationships

In the context of relationships, the phrase “cords of attachment” is a symbolic representation of the emotional bonds between two people.

The depth of the cords of attachment often represent how intimately connected two people are. People who are close to one another, like family members, have cords that are deep and intertwined, whereas people who are more distant have cords that are shallower and less intertwined.

Cords of attachment often represent the pull that one person has on another. It is typically the person with the most emotional attachment to a loved one that holds and clutches at them.

But don’t think someone like a childhood best friend or teacher will have less cords than say a work colleague. Often those relationships can be really impactful.

Healthy and Unhealthy Attachments

When we get into a relationship, we hope to find happiness and fulfillment. But sometimes the relationship may end up being toxic or abusive.

First, it is important to understand how attachment works and what the different types of attachments are. Attachments can be categorized by type, as either healthy or unhealthy.

An unhealthy attachment will make you feel emotionally unstable and needy for your partner’s time and attention. You might also spread yourself too thin for your partner’s needs – which leads to you neglecting your own needs and comfort in the process.

A healthy attachment is completely different because it will give you stability and peace in your life while also making sure that you are taking care of yourself as well as others in your life.

Clear Up The Past

We all have energetic cords of attachment, both positive and negative, with others. These cords are the energetic connections between the chakras of two people, or other parts of the body. When these cords get severed, it can bring a sense of release and freedom from other people’s needs. For this to be done properly, it should be done by a healer who has a good understanding of energy healing and cutting these etheric cords.

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Moving Forward

As you start to chip away cleaning up your past relationships in your energetic field, these etheric cords, which are energy drains; healing past relationships, you can start to make choices that are more conscious about who you choose to have a relationship with. When we are younger we don’t have that choice, our energy systems are just reliving old patterns in the subconscious mind.

But remember we aren’t victims, at a Soul level these are all our lessons to be learned from.